I started tracking daily money spent on January 3, 2019 and I've been scrupulously honest about it here ever since.
As you know, it has often included groceries [a lot of groceries], drugstore items, gasoline, Uber and bus fares....but also coffees, vacation expenses, books, candles, stationery, colorful work folders...clothing, accessories....flowers/plants/potting soil...dining out.....gifts. Table linens, Aerin dishes on sale. And things so precious to me, such as annual family membership to Audubon Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary [maybe $60?].
This is the very first day where I really do not want to tell you how much I spent--on a beautiful lavender wool-blend, collarless winter coat.
I'm tired of jackets bought on sale that don't snap and my old black Burberry jacket that is almost 20 years old and needs to be mended. I don't think I've bought an honest-to-God, knee-length coat since the 1990s. And this is my fifth week working in a professional office.
But I did buy a coat tonight, at the new Nordstrom flagship store on 57th Street, fourth floor, with help from stylish salesperson Andrew. I must have tried on 15 coats before I found it, starting on the fifth floor. Let's see:
I want to look professional.
I am not ready to reveal my price here. Let's just consider it a major business investment. I hope it lasts a good while.
TCOY
As you know, it has often included groceries [a lot of groceries], drugstore items, gasoline, Uber and bus fares....but also coffees, vacation expenses, books, candles, stationery, colorful work folders...clothing, accessories....flowers/plants/potting soil...dining out.....gifts. Table linens, Aerin dishes on sale. And things so precious to me, such as annual family membership to Audubon Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary [maybe $60?].
This is the very first day where I really do not want to tell you how much I spent--on a beautiful lavender wool-blend, collarless winter coat.
I'm tired of jackets bought on sale that don't snap and my old black Burberry jacket that is almost 20 years old and needs to be mended. I don't think I've bought an honest-to-God, knee-length coat since the 1990s. And this is my fifth week working in a professional office.
But I did buy a coat tonight, at the new Nordstrom flagship store on 57th Street, fourth floor, with help from stylish salesperson Andrew. I must have tried on 15 coats before I found it, starting on the fifth floor. Let's see:
- Patagonia knee-length.
- Barbour black with fur-trimmed hood and belt [my favorite, but only went up to U.S. size 14, boo].
- Beautiful khaki jacket with tapered waist.
- Black coat with faux-fur patch pockets.
- White jacket with hood.
- Second white jacket with hood.
- White wool coat.
- Odd camel coat with long pink faux-fur cuffs.
- The North Face long black coat.
- Shaggy golden coat.
- Light blue jacket.
- Woolrich black and white plaid.
- Woolrich red and black plaid.
- Furry car coat with belt--looked like a bulky bathrobe on me.
- Another one like that, without a belt, by another brand.
- Gorgeous lilac car coat with belt you tie in a bow, but I needed XL and L was a far cry from that.
I want to look professional.
I am not ready to reveal my price here. Let's just consider it a major business investment. I hope it lasts a good while.
TCOY
- Walked almost an hour in NYC.
- Baby spinach from salad bar.
- Coat.
$ money spent out of pocket
- Duane Reade, dark chocolate bar, $4.25.
- Wasteful, coffee and croissant and $1 tip, $8.89. Way too much.
- Cafeteria lunch, $6.27.
- Donation, $25, Covenant House [Moey doing sleepout].
TOTAL DAILY SPEND NOT COUNTING COAT: $44.41.
will crunch numbers soon.
Been thinking a lot about how to curtail my discretionary spending. Between the new job, the travel, and the house projects, I have spent a lot this year. Frittering - not huge amounts for any one thing, but a fairly constant drip of unnecessary spending. And it has been fun. But looking ahead, What I really want is to make progress on big house projects -remodel bathroom, install new flooring in office, install low maintenance landscaping, AND travel, and I cannot do those things without being more disciplined.
ReplyDeleteSo where comes my dopamine hit if I cannot eat candy, and I cannot buy treats? And when did I, so privileged in so much of my life, decide I should have a dopamine hit so often? I think I need to talk to myself about contentment. I got bad habits in tough times, but under no definition am I suffering hard times.
I appreciate your general candor, and understand not wanting to discuss a spending binge. One day at a time.
Liz
Liz, I love the furniture and furnishings you bought. So stylish. Right, it's dopamine.....but sometimes, it's just buying something that makes life warmer, cozier, softer or more fashionable. I like your question, "when did I, so privileged in so much of my life, decide I should have a dopamine hit so often?" Have a good weekend.
DeleteI'll bet your coat is beautiful. You EARNED it, Alice.
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